The soldier in battle realizes that his moment of salvation is his victory over the obvious, well-known enemy who wears a different uniform than himself. The drowning in the sea knows that the moment of his salvation is to reach the land and be able to breathe easily. Lost in the desert or in the jungle, he realizes that his survival depends on reaching a human-inhabited area with water, food and protection from predators. The person who suffered in his childhood from an unsatisfied relationship with his family lives his life as a soldier, drowned and lost, but does not realize who the enemy is, where salvation is and how to reach it. This book is an attempt to draw a map and signs on a way to survive from childhood in which our relationship with our parents was not Fine