I know two things that most people don't believe in. First, driving is a superpower. Second, almost everything we've learned about driving is wrong. My lack of leadership in the business led to the collapse of my first two companies, and later active leadership enabled me to rise up to establish, build and sell many multi-million dollar companies. My lack of leadership at home also led to my marriage failure, and then family leadership led me to raise three wonderful children as a separate parent from his wife. My lack of self-leadership led me to my disappointment, weight gain and depression, and now self-driving led me to be healthy, focused, and active. If you follow old traditional management advice, you will ruin your career, family life, or both. Today we have shorter budgets and labor, but we have to do more, and we have to deal with an environment of violent changes, and communications that never stop all day, as well as with generations that carry values that are completely different from their parents. This book has one goal, to teach you how you can become a manager that everyone wants to work with, and become a high-achieving person every CEO wishes to hire; all without the complexity, stress, or endless hours in the office. Those advice, which you are looking at, support a solid research ground, and are grounded in my entrepreneurial experience in company creation and development over the past three decades. These companies have won the INC Magazine Award for Top 500 Companies in Rapid Growth Rates and the Best Work Environment Awards for Employee Satisfaction. This book also builds on my conversational interviews with over two hundred guests on The LEADx Leadership Podcast online, and I have drawn realistic wisdom from management teachers like Dan Pink, Liz Wiseman, and Kim Scott, as well as from executives like Jason Fried, President Executive Executive for a company Biscamp, Mike McDerment, CEO of Freshbox, Jim Whitehurst, CEO of Red Hat, and also military specialists such as submarine commander David Marquet, fighter pilot Vernis Armour, and US Army Major